You've got an employee who isn't contributing their fair share. You know you need to address it. The rest of the team can tell this employee is a poor performer. If you don't do something, your credibility will suffer.

But what do you say?

The purpose of conversations like this isn't to punish the employee. It's to change their performance. That's why you don't want to delay the conversation. The longer you wait, the harder the conversation. Because the employee will think their behavior is acceptable since no one addressed it.

Here's an outline you can use as you think about the conversation you want to have with the employee.

1. Let the employee know your concern. Don't minimize the importance of this conversation by spending a huge amount of time talking about the latest episode of The Voice and a little on the topic of performance. This is an important matter and should be treated that way.
2. Share what you have observed. Offer specifics about actual behaviors you've witnessed. If someone else witnessed the behaviors, try to have that person there. Employees don't like the line "someone told me you did this..." If you're trying to correct behavior, be able to specifically discuss behavior.
3. Tell them the expected behavior. It's possible an employee will not know what they should be doing. Come to the discussion prepared to explain what the acceptable standard is and how an employee can achieve the standard.
4. Solicit solutions from the employee on how to fix the situation. This is so important! Let the employee tell you what they're going to do to fix the situation. It creates buy-in. If you tell an employee what to do, they haven't bought into it. Give the employee time to think about possible solutions.
5. Convey the consequences. Let the employee know what will happen if the situation is not resolved. You'll notice I haven't written one word about disciplinary action. Sometimes the consequence is an employee will not be eligible for a transfer. Or they will not be able to participate in flextime. Maybe the next step is discipline. Regardless, make sure the employee is aware of what happens if the matter isn't resolved.
6. Agree upon a follow-up date. No news is good news is not a management philosophy. After the employee agrees to work toward improving their performance, set a follow-up date to discuss progress.
7. Express your confidence. Since the goal of this conversation is to improve performance, don't be afraid to tell an employee you're confident they can correct the situation.

None of us likes to have a negative performance conversation. I always try to remember the purpose -- it's to help an employee change their behavior. If the conversation stays focused on helping the employee be successful, then hopefully it never escalates to disciplinary action.

Performance conversations can be a bit scary -- both for the person giving them and the person receiving the feedback. Take time to plan out your thoughts. Think of the different responses that could arise and how you would answer them. Preparation will make the conversation easier.